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גליון "קול השופר 2009" - # 15
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חדשות אחרונות מהיום ג' טבת תשס"ט

 

האל קיידא של סאטמאר עוד מחפשים להרוג את הצדיק הקדוש רבינו נחום שליט"א, ולא מפסיקים לרדוף אחריו, ורק בגלליהם נעשה כל המלחמה בארצינו הקדושה, ונפלו כבר הרבה קרבנות, וועד הצלת נפשות בוויליאמסבורג מתכוננים להפגנה גדולה שלא הייתה כדוגמתה בניו יארק נגד הטעראר של אל קיידא של סאטמאר.

מתכוננים גם כן לעשות הפגנה גדולה בוואשינגטון נגד הטרור של סאטמאר נגד רבינו הקדוש שרוצה להציל את הילדים הקטנים והבחורים שהאל קיידא לא יהרוג אותם! 

 

in Hebrew
http://www.theawarenesscenter.org/teshuvos.pdf

http://torahweb.org/video/rsch_120306.html

http://www.jlaw.com/Articles/mesiralaw2.html
 

 
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From:

 <sherree@belsky.us>
Date: Tue, Dec 30, 2008 at 1:01 AM
Subject: RE: Important recommendation
To: asher lipner <lipnera@gmail.com>,

In my own humble opinion that would make the point on the resolution moot "report to the appropriate legal authorities".  It should have read "report to the appropriate authorities", which gives one more autonomy to  be able to decide for themselves who that appropriate authority is.  In this case, as this victim has clearly pointed out, the appropriate authority would be a support system, who would know how to navigate a victim through the process.  That support system might be a therapist, a doctor, a Rabbi involved in supporting victims, a hotline, an attorney, or an organization looking out for the best interests of victims, as stated in this email.  And of course there is always the police, but I would also suggest that no one go to the police alone because victims are vulnerable, and I would also suggest that nothing be turned over to the police without copies being made and copies of statements being kept, and records of dates, times and the names of the people (detectives) one spoke to being recorded for future reference.  It is not up to us to decide who the appropriate authorities would or should be for any victim, we should only be showing them what their options are.

 

It is important that every victim finds the strength within themselves to get empowered to stop their abuser and put them out of business, more so to hold them accountable for abusing them.  And when they are ready to do so, they should have the right support system to walk them through the process, make sure it is done with the utmost sensitivity shown towards them, and with the absolute thoroughness, efficiency and importance that their report deserves.

 

Understanding that reporting abuse to the appropriate authorities is the only way to have a record of abusers in each community.  If we continue to keep the secret that the religious Jew is yet a human being with human flaws and that there is also good and evil in our community, we allow the evil to win; we empower the evil in the community to rule over the good and decent people.  It is the evil in people, the yetzer horah that has made the biggest chilul hashem and gives the entire community a bad name.  It is time we exposed the evil and wiped it cleanly and clearly out of our communities.  Rip off the rugs and sweep the rooms clean and clear of all the old evil dust balls that were hiding under the rugs.  If it were possible, if only the yetzer horah had not gotten hold of the ones we should be able to trust.  If only the yetzer horah did not get hold of the ones we should be able to turn to, but its too late for that.  Everyone's got something on the other guy.  It is too hard to trust these days, our society is so corrupt.  We can't go to our own batei denim because we have no way of knowing who has what on whom, and who is going to be yashar and who is going to be bought off.  So we have to go to the local authorities and find a way to stop the evil but still maintain our halachic balance.

 

We have found two Poskim that said "if you know that the perpetrator will harm another person/child he must be turned into the authorities".  WE have quoted this to many others who still do not accept this psak.  In addition, I have a question that has been bothering me on this pask.  If the perpetrator is not turned in even on his/her first offense (and I can understand leniency and mandatory therapy for a first time offender depending on the circumstances), how can we know for sure if a perpetrator is committing a first or second (or more) offense.  If there is no record of his/her first offense how can one possibly know if he/she had done it before until the time when more than one victim comes forward and makes a public announcement as was the case with Kolko and Mondrowitz.  Even if the Rabbonim were to give a psak that "each offense must be reported to the authorities, however a first time offender must be shown leniency and must be treated differently than a repeat offender",  I could  understand that better because then there would be a record that he had one strike against him/her and if he did it a second time we would actually know that he did it a second time and not think that the second time was the first offense.

 

If anyone could explain to me how one would know, how one could determine whether it was an abuser's first offense in order to determine if that abuser will strike again.  Would you trust the abuser by asking him, "is this the first time you did this?"  Should we believe him if his answer was yes?  So I ask you, who are all very familiar to this subject and because many of you are therapists, the psak was that one should turn in the abuser to the authorities if it is determined that he is a threat or he will harm another; is it safe then to assume that if he abused once that we know of, he will definitely abuse again, or that because we have no way of determining that this was his first offense that he will definitely without a doubt do it again.

 

Sherree Belsky

 

 
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From: Sherree Belsky <sherree@belsky.us>
Date: Tue, Dec 30, 2008 at 4:12 PM
Subject: RE: [jewishadvocates] Fwd: CHECK THIS OUT
To: jewishadvocates@yahoogroups.com
 
It would be a big Kiddush Hashem, IMHO, that all victims of Mondrowitz support the brave goyim who broke the story and give their own ididvual testimony to  Rhonnie Jaus, in order  to support the case that she has pending against Mondrowitz.  Although victims/survivors can not file charges because of the laws of statute of limitations that does not prevent them in giving testimony of their own experiences to the sex crimes unit for back up to the case they already have against Mondrowitz.  The more information that Jaus has, the more information she can file with the Israeli court system and the stronger her case becomes.  As always there is power in numbers, the victims listed by one single filing, both to the courts, in one press release, in one letter to the Gerer Rebbe both here and in E"Y, can not be ignored.  If there are 10, 20 , 30 or more victims willing to testify that what happened to these goyish victims happened to them as well, there is a better shot at getting this monster locked up.

 

Sherree Belsky

VP

JBAC

 

From: jewishadvocates@yahoogroups.com [mailto:jewishadvocates@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of asher lipner
Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2008 3:22 PM
To: jewishadvocates@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [jewishadvocates] Fwd: CHECK THIS OUT
 


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From: Hella Winston <hellawinston@nyc.rr.com>
Date: Dec 30, 2008 2:34 PM
Subject: CHECK THIS OUT
To: Asher Lipner <lipnera@gmail.com>

http://www.vosizneias.com/24967/2008/12/30/new-york-non-jewish-victims-ready-to-testify-against-pedophile-avrohom-mondrowitz/#comments

 

 

 


 

From: asher lipner [mailto:lipnera@gmail.com]
Sent: Monday, December 29, 2008 11:54 PM
Subject: Important recommendation

 
Dear All,
 
First of all, we have switched from googlegruops to yahoo, and you should be receiving an invitation or a notification of being added on to it.  
 
The following is an important piece of information for all victims and victims advocates that was forwarded to me by someone who has been there (i.e. made reports to police, etc.):
 
I wanted to make what I feel is an important recommendation that I believe is not widely known and needs to be publicized.  I would recommend that victims of sexual assault (including molestation) go first to their state or local coalition against sexual assault before going to their local police.  From our own nightmarish experience, I can tell you that local police can be corrupt and influenced by local liasons with tremendous political clout.  There are usually numerous coalitions in each state with lots of experience that can accompany the victims and serve as important advocates for them so that witnesses do not get intimidated and evidence inexplicably lost.  
 
We need to get the word out that victims should not report to the police on their own.  They need experienced support and an advocate with them  - or all their efforts to report can backfire and be worse than worthless.
 
In NY, there are the NYCASA branches (NY Coalition Against Sexual Assault) in NJ, NJCASA, in Maryalnd, MDCASA, etc.  Their contact info can all be found online.
 

 


 

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From: <VICKIPOLIN@aol.com>
Date: Mon, Dec 29, 2008 at 2:34 PM
Subject: Forbidden relations' leading cause of abortion in Israel
To: TheAwarenessCenter@yahoogroups.com

Forbidden relations' leading cause of abortion in Israel

Health Ministry report shows 55% of abortions result of incest, out of wedlock conception and pregnancies conceived under illegal circumstances
By Meital Yasur-Beit Or
YNET News - December 28, 2008
http://www.ynetnews.com/articles/0,7340,L-3642871,00.html


Also see:
http://www.theawarenesscenter.org/abortion.html

Despite the Israeli obsession with having "the perfect baby", studies show a fear of birth defects is not the leading cause for abortion in Israel.
 
Over 50% of terminated pregnancies are a result of out-of-wedlock conception, incest or conception under illegal circumstances (such as rape, statutory rape), a Health Ministry report published on Tuesday stated.

Controve
 
The rate of abortions prompted by fetal defects remained steady since the mid 1990s, and between the years 2000 to 2007 a 4% drop in the number of women terminating pregnancies for this reason has been recorded.

 
The report covered 19,500 cases of abortion that took place in Israel in 2007. Data showed that 55% of abortions were a result of incest, illegal relations or out-of-wedlock conception.

 
A health risk to the mother and physical defects to the fetus were equally significant reasons for abortion, with each constituting the grounds for 18% of pregnancy terminations.

 
The mother's age, either below 17 or above 40, was a factor in less than a tenth of abortions in 2007.

 
Over half of the abortions (58%) were performed in the period up to the seventh week of pregnancy. A third took place between the eighth and twelfth week, and a tenth of terminations were carried out past the thirteenth week of pregnancy, after the first trimester had ended.

 
40% of abortions performed in private hospitals
Termination of more advanced pregnancies was rare in 2007, with 245 abortions after the twenty-fourth week of pregnancy being approved, making up about 1% of all abortions.

 
Forty percent of abortions were performed in private medical centers. Only 10 abortions took place in private ultra-Orthodox hospitals in 2007, due to defects that endangered the fetus or the mother.

 
About one quarter of pregnancy terminations in Israel were performed using the "abortion pill" Mifepristone, taken in the early stages of pregnancy, up to week seven.


 
In 2007, 20,900 women appealed to pregnancy termination committees in hospitals throughout Israel, and 19,544 requests for abortion were granted.

 
Last year's overall abortion rate was the lowest in Israel since the early 1990s, and the Israeli abortion rate is, after Greece, the lowest of all European Union nations, with a rate of 133.8 for every thousand births, compared to the EU's average of 246 per 1,000 births.